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I Am Who You Say I Am

2/24/2024

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By: Ivonne J. Hernandez
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“Tell us a bit about yourself.” That moment when a group meets for the first time and they ask everyone this question always gives me pause. Often, whoever answers first creates a pattern the rest of the group follows. Sometimes, they will say their name and where they come from. Other times, they will say their name, what they do for a living, and perhaps why they came to this particular meeting. How we answer that question can give us some insight, not only on how well we know ourselves, but on how secure we feel in our identity. Do we answer with a list of things we do, or do we talk about who we are? Does the answer depend on who is asking? Does it change depending on where we are?

[Jesus] said to them, “But who do you say that I am?” (Matthew 16:15)
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Jesus first asks the disciples to tell Him what others say about Him, for He knows that is what our minds first look for. What is the people’s opinion, and where do we fall within that. But then He asks them as individuals. He asks them to step out of the crowd and seek the answer within their own hearts. “But who do you say that I am?” (Matthew 16:15)

Do we know Jesus? Jesus, the Second Person of the Trinity, the Son of the Living God, the Messiah, the Bread of Life… Do we know Him? Or do we mainly know about Him? In other words, have we had a personal encounter with Jesus, or do we mainly know what others say about Him? Which is better? I’d like to propose that they are both good, yet one is definitely more important, as it is the goal of our existence. We are made to be in relationship with God. To encounter Him is to know Him.

When we hear about Jesus, we will be moved to seek Him; we will thirst to meet Him. When we have an encounter with Jesus, we will be moved to learn everything we can about Him. Can a finite creature ever learn everything about infinite Love?

The mind-blowing part of this love equation is that, though we will never know everything about God, He definitely knows everything about each one of us. He knows especially well the parts that are hidden even to our own selves. And, knowing everything about us, the good and the bad, He loves us.

INFINITE LOVE loves me. This is who I am. Do I know this? Do I believe it? Do I receive it?
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What do we know of the story of the Samaritan Woman (John 4:4-42)? We know the woman at the well had an encounter with Jesus that transformed not only her life, but the lives of those around her. “Come see a man who told me everything I have done. Could he possibly be the Messiah?” (v.29). When we read between the lines, we realize that it is not just that He knew all she had done that changed her; the devil could do that too. But it was the experience of being fully known and fully loved that transformed her heart. 

Jesus answered and said to her, “If you knew the gift of God and who is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him and he would have given you living water.” (v.10).
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When she realized who was speaking to her, who was taking time to pay attention to her, to love her, it was then that she realized her worth.

“I am he, the one who is speaking with you.” (v.26). 
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“Body of Christ” As we hear these words and look up at the tiny host, do we realize WHO is asking to come into our flesh and be united with us? “Blood of Christ” As we hear these words and look up at the chalice, do we realize WHO is thirsting for us?

When we say Amen, we are assenting that this is indeed the Living God, the Resurrected Jesus, the One Who died for us. Realizing who is speaking to us, who is taking the time to pay attention to and love us… What does that say about who we are? What does it say about who we belong to? If we want to know our truest, deepest identity, we must first seek within our hearts the answer to his question, “But who do you say that I am?”
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Ivonne J. Hernandez

Ivonne is a Catholic wife, mother, Lay Associate of the Blessed Sacrament, President of Elisheba House, speaker, and writer. Author of The Rosary: Eucharistic Meditations. Regular contributor for CatholicMom.com and the Congregation of the Blessed Sacrament's Daily Eucharistic Reflection. She has written for other publications, including Emmanuel Publishing and Shalom Magazine. She and her husband, Rick Hernandez, coordinate the RCIA program at their home parish. She loves choral music and is a member of the Master Chorale of Tampa Bay. She lives in Trinity, FL with her husband and two of her young adult sons.

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Accept the Struggle

2/17/2024

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By: Rick Hernandez
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“Those who are well do not need a physician, but the sick do. Go and learn the meaning of the words, ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice.’ I did not come to call the righteous but sinners.” (Matthew 9:12-13)

We see time and time again that Christ calls all peoples to Himself, especially those who are ill and need healing. We read and hear that our Lord tends to the pain of the suffering with His very own hands. Jesus does not question the pain but instead acknowledges the suffering. Moved by His compassionate heart, He gave back sight to the blind, washed clean the lepers, gave back hearing to the deaf, restored the paralyzed, and forgave the repentant sinners. Jesus, our Lord, is the Heavenly Physician, and the Church He left for us is meant to be a hospital. The Church is intended to offer healing, if somewhat different from the miracles we hear in the Gospels and the Acts of the Apostles.
 
Pope Francis goes further to say that our Church is a field hospital out into the world. He said the early Church is depicted as “a field hospital that takes in the weakest people: the infirm.” And that “The sick hold a privileged role in the Church and in the priestly heart of all the faithful. They are not to be cast aside. On the contrary, they are to be cared for, to be looked after. They are the objects of Christian concern.”
 
And I long for the day that we are all united with Christ in our love and concern for those among us who are ill, infirm, lonely, sad, depressed, dying, or living in desolation and poverty. Yet the reality we see is much different from this. People today want our Church to be an exclusive club, closed to those most in need of Christ’s love, mercy, and healing. We forget what it is to be as Christ. Did He not tend to those most in need?
In the sacrifice of the Eucharist, I see Christ’s heart hurting for us, calling us to love as He did, to care as He did. The Church is not a club but a place of healing.
 
I am often privy to conversations where one criticizes another or complains that someone is not doing the right things, and I am amazed at how easy it is for us to pass judgment upon our brother. Often, I find those judgments so unfair, for we do not know the whole story or situation. We are not omniscient. Only God knows the entire story, and judgment is reserved for Him.

“Stop judging, that you may not be judged, for as you judge, so will you be judged, and the measure with which you measure will be measured out to you.” (Matthew 7:1-2)

Let me share a story I read long ago.

“On Mount Athos in Northern Greece, there was once a monastery with a monk who got drunk every day and was the cause of scandal to the many pilgrims in the area. After many years, the monk died, and this relieved some of the faithful, who went on to tell the Elder, Father Paisios, that they were delighted that this huge problem was finally solved.
 
Father Paisios answered that he knew about the monk’s death, for he ‘saw the entire battalion of angels who came to collect his soul.’ The pilgrims were amazed at Father Paisios’ words, and some protested and tried to explain further to the Elder, thinking he did not understand the situation.
 
Seeing the situation, Elder Paisios explained that the monk was born in Asia Minor shortly before the destruction of the area by the Turks and that after the battles, the Turks ordered that all the boys of the region be gathered, a generation to be held captive.
 
The Turks took all the young children with them to the reaping, and so that they would not cry, they poured raki (an alcoholic drink) into their milk to keep them from crying. This treatment continued for many years, and therefore, the monk from Mount Athos grew up as an alcoholic. In time, the monk found the Elder and confessed that he was an alcoholic and could not stop his drinking, for he had been drinking since he was a young child.
                      
The Elder took him in and told him to do prostrations and prayers every night and beg the Blessed Mother Mary to help him reduce the glasses he drank by one. After a year of prostrations and prayers, he managed, with struggle and repentance, to make the 20 glasses he drank into 19 glasses.
 
The struggle continued over many years, and he eventually reached 2-3 glasses in a day, with which he would still get drunk. For years, the world has only seen an alcoholic monk who scandalized the pilgrims, but God saw a fighter who fought a long struggle to reduce his passion.” (Story of Elder Paisios and the Alcoholic Monk)
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​Fighting against sin is a life-long endeavor that will require all our strength.

“In your struggle against sin, you have not yet resisted to the point of shedding blood.” (Hebrews 12:4)

As with the monk, we need our Most Blessed Mother to pray for us. That is why we implore Mother Mary to “pray for us now and at the time of our death” that we may resist the temptation to abandon hope. We do not want to stop the struggle against sin, especially at the last moment.
 
The life-long fight against sin worked on the monk the same way a river polishes a river stone. Eventually, the friction rounds us up. In the struggle, the monk found fidelity, hope, and faith. He never gave up, and God never gave up on him. For his life’s work fighting against sin, he was recompensed with a host of angels escorting him up to Heaven. Can you imagine this glorious day in the House of our Lord?

“I have competed well; I have finished the race; I have kept the faith.” (2 Timothy 4:7)

The monastery was a field hospital for the monk. We thank God for the Elder who gave his time, love, and compassion. He helped raise a saint.
 
But what about the pilgrims of the story? Don’t they sound a little bit like us today? Let us learn this lesson of love and compassion and try to do better than the pilgrims, for the same way we have our stories of struggle, so do our brothers and sisters. Let us keep an open mind and lend a hand to those struggling and fighting against sin. Let us always remember we are all in this fight.

“Be assured, that storms do not last. Winter purifies the weather, kills all the little insects which devour the plants. Your soul seems to be dying in the midst of suffering. That is true, but it is in order to be reborn from its ashes. A soul which loves God lives through death. So have courage! [When we are] on the edge of a precipice, we must not look at the bottom, but look determinedly above; otherwise, we become dizzy. Fix your heart on our Lord. Rest assured that he is there within you, contemplating your struggles and preparing to reward them.” (Saint Peter Julian Eymard – Letter to Mrs. Franchet - March 21, 1851)

Let us pray: “Dear God, please give me strength when I am weak, love when I feel forsaken, courage when I am afraid, wisdom when I feel foolish, comfort when I am alone, hope when I feel rejected, and peace when I am in turmoil. Amen.” (Unknown Author)
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Rick Hernandez is a commonsense Catholic, Lay Associate of the Blessed Sacrament, and a Director for Elisheba House. He lives in Trinity, Florida, with his wife Ivonne and their children. He also writes for the Congregation of the Blessed Sacrament's Daily Eucharistic Reflections and for Catholicmom.com.

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Do This In Memory of Me: Be Broken

2/10/2024

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By: Laura Catherine Worhacz
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Dearest Eucharistic Family,   
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The liturgical seasons come full circle and seem more rapid as I get older. What will You have us do for You, Jesus, as the Lenten Season will be upon us in a few days? Entering the season with Mary is a good start for me—the acknowledgment of her presence in the Eucharist as our mother is real. We need Our Lady to help us receive Jesus with reverence and awe. Mary was the first to be broken with Jesus and given to the world. We need a mother. God, in His Wisdom, knew that we needed maternal care. We are blessed to be held by Mary as we journey through life and another Lenten Season.   

"Make reparation through the Blessed Virgin, begging her heartily at the foot of the Cross. She was offering her son for the world's salvation and offering herself to him. It is there that, for the first time, she is mother of everyone, and their salvation is very dear to her heart. We must offer our Lord the anguish and tears of his mother. It is very easy to offer the Blessed Virgin to our Lord. We must do so, since she is the great mediatrix, becoming one in her."  - Saint Peter Julian Eymard (Letter to the Servants of the Blessed Sacrament)  

What can we do?  

We hear in the Psalms that it is not so much sacrifice but a humble and contrite heart that God desires.  

"For you do not desire sacrifice or I would give it; a burnt offering you would not accept. My sacrifice, O God, is a contrite spirit; a contrite, humbled heart, O God, you will not scorn." (Psalm 51:18-19) 

Where can I give more of my heart to You, Lord?  

The external sacrifices of giving up favorite foods and a disciplined routine are excellent means to keep us obedient. Lenten fasts, sound and holy practices help us have more self-control. They help us to die to ourselves to gift ourselves to others. But the true sacrifice and gift is Jesus' life for us. He gave it freely. Jesus continues to give of Himself as He remains humble and hidden in the Eucharist. His silent presence speaks to the sinner in the depths of our souls. When we find forgiveness of our limitations and love pours out for others in compassion and mercy, life arises in our souls. The concern for us and others takes precedence. As we receive the Blessed Sacrament and carry Jesus to others, perhaps His love in us will be shared. To be broken may be to take on the burden someone holds, for it to be shared. To carry the Cross with another is to identify with suffering. Jesus took on our sins for the forgiveness Our Father has given to us in Christ. May we take on a Lenten practice of giving God His holy will for our mercy and compassion?   ​

“Have mercy on me, God, in accord with your merciful love;” (Psalm 51:3) 


“When you love someone, your love is not limited to his times of honor and glory, but partakes of his pains and sorrows. Since you have three adorations daily, set one apart for reparation; it will be the best. You are practicing these two things: adoration and reparation. You are offering yourself and asking grace from the Good Lord, begging his mercy. To have pity on these poor persons is good, but to heal them is better.” - Saint Peter Julian Eymard (Personal notes) 

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Laura Catherine Worhacz

Laura Catherine Worhacz is a Lay Associate of the Blessed Sacrament and author of Consecration to Jesus Through Our Lady of The Blessed Sacrament. She is also the Director of Mothers of The Blessed Sacrament. She lives in Trinity, FL with her husband and their two daughters.

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