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As For Me and My Household

7/29/2023

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By: Ivonne J. Hernandez
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“Therefore, the Supreme Pontiff Pope FRANCIS, considering the important evangelical witness they offered in welcoming the Lord Jesus into their home, in listening to him attentively, in believing that he is the resurrection and the life, and accepting the proposal of this Dicastery, has decreed that 29 July be designated in the General Roman Calendar as the Memorial of Saints Martha, Mary and Lazarus.” (DECREE on the Celebration of Saints Martha, Mary and Lazarus in the General Roman Calendar, 2021)
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Martha, Mary, and Lazarus… three siblings watching us from Heaven, praying for us, rooting for us. Their example is one of simplicity and love; they welcomed Jesus into their home.

“Jesus entered a village, where a woman named Martha welcomed him into her home.” (Cf. Luke 10:38)
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I get the impression that Martha might have been the eldest, the head of the household; she represented all of them in welcoming Christ. I remember first hearing the title “Head of Household” when my mom filed her income tax return after my dad passed away. I was very young… interesting to remember such a minor detail. It might have been one of those moments when an abstract concept materializes in one’s mind. More than a simple classification for tax purposes, it defined the new status of my mother in our lives.
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Many people said that, as a widow, my mom had to fulfill the role of both father and mother to us. Yet, I don’t think that is really possible. She was a very busy mom, but she was still just mom; she was not dad. I think well-meaning people did not have the understanding or vocabulary to name that she was a mother and head of household. She had all the previous responsibilities of raising and mothering us, but she was now also our representative. She was legally and spiritually empowered to speak for us. 

 “As for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.” (Joshua 24:15)
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​When we got married, my husband and I created a new family and a new home. Over the years, the makeup of our household has changed more than once. There have been years when my mother lived with us. Right now, one of our adult sons has moved out into his own home, yet two young adults still live with us. All three are our sons, but only two are part of our household. Our levels of authority and responsibility are different in each scenario. What does it mean to be the head of the home?

“On the sabbath we went outside the city gate along the river where we thought there would be a place of prayer. We sat and spoke with the women who had gathered there. One of them, a woman named Lydia, a dealer in purple cloth, from the city of Thyatira, a worshiper of God, listened, and the Lord opened her heart to pay attention to what Paul was saying. After she and her household had been baptized, she offered us an invitation, “If you consider me a believer in the Lord, come and stay at my home,” and she prevailed on us.” (Acts 16:13-15)
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The Lord opened Lydia’s heart. She then spoke for her household, had them all baptized, and invited the Apostles to stay at their home. As a head of household, there is a role of leadership, a responsibility for those under you in the home. And that role looks different when those in your home are children than when they are adults. It looks different for a married couple than a single dad or mom. A good leader serves by helping each household member get with the program, always leading by example, and always leading with love. Before Lydia could bring Christ to her household, she had to first let Him enter her heart… only then would He be welcomed into the home.

What does it mean to welcome Christ into our homes? How do we learn to sit at His feet and listen? How can we prepare to leave the tomb at the sound of His voice?
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Saints Martha, Mary, and Lazarus pray for us.


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Ivonne J. Hernandez

Ivonne is a Lay Associate of the Blessed Sacrament, President of Elisheba House, and author of The Rosary: Eucharistic Meditations. She lives in Trinity, Florida, with her husband, Rick, and their children.

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Regret and Forgiveness

7/22/2023

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By: Rick Hernandez
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Every so often I feel compelled to take a little excursion of remembrance through my life journey, and I invariably find that I spend more time contemplating my failures and faults than in the joy of the triumphs and accomplishments. This may just be my personality, but I find that my human nature tends to gravitate towards regret, and even guilt, rather than gratitude.

"The dead tend to receive more flowers than the living because regret is usually stronger on us than gratitude." - Unknown

This state of regret over the past is one that we must actively fight against, especially when it is accompanied by excessive guilt. Catholics have access to the Sacrament of Reconciliation (Confession) in order for us to receive forgiveness for our sins and our faults, and to restore us to Communion with our Lord, and after we receive absolution, we are forgiven, no ifs and no buts. But do we forgive ourselves or do we continue to live in regret and guilt?
 
We do not need regret but repentance.
 
It is not really worth it to look back with regret on the things that were done from love and mercy, whether they could have been done better or differently. If they were done to the best of our ability, with love, and to the full extent of what we knew, then no more could have been honestly asked of us. We did what we could. Let us not stay trapped there.
 
It may be worth looking back at those moments where we lacked love and mercy, even if the end result was positive. For those instances we have to repent, revise, and reconsider, so that we may learn how to do better and grow to become the saintly people God envisions. Those instances we bring to Confession, that we may be forgiven.
 
Yet, we are human, and it can be so easy for us, who have failed in mercy and love through our actions, to just stay in that place of regret and guilt, convicted by our own judgment. Let us fight that. Christ calls us to move forward from there. His forgiveness calls us to action and work towards making amends, toward the bettering of self, and toward becoming the best version of ourselves.
 
Through the Sacrament of Confession we are restored to a relationship with Christ and others, yet some of us fail to believe this, we fail to forgive ourselves, and we choose, once again, to remain on that lonely place of self-judgment and regret. A good act of contrition is meant to reset our minds and hearts as it helps set our sights forward from this moment: "I firmly intend to do penance and to sin no more..."

"That we may recover by penance what we have lost by sin." (Excerpt from the Miraculous Medal Novena)
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​Why do we choose to believe that the grace of God cannot change us? From our repentance, and after confession, we are called to a restored life. We are received, yet again, by the One who sees us as we were created to be. Forgiveness does indeed restore us. The grace received does empower us to work on ourselves, to once again become as one with Christ Eucharistic. We may not be able to fully let go of our regrets and self-guilt yet, but let us not lose hope that we can get there, for love can nurture us, faith can sustain us, and hope can keep us from despair.
 
In the moment of our individual judgment, Christ will ask us about many things. Will we tell Him we did not believe He could redeem us?
 
Let us pray: Lord, You are forever just and forever merciful. Help us to repent honestly and accept Your Mercy, that we may live our lives fully in You. Amen.
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Rick Hernandez

Rick Hernandez is a commonsense Catholic, Lay Associate of the Blessed Sacrament, and a Director for Elisheba House. He lives in Trinity, Florida, with his wife Ivonne and their children. He also writes for the Congregation of the Blessed Sacrament's Daily Eucharistic Reflections and for Catholicmom.com.

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Do This in Memory of Me: Go to Your Mother, Your Teacher

7/15/2023

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By: Laura Catherine Worhacz
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“The refinement of friendship. Suffering is often God’s secret for keeping the soul under the mystery of obedience and in the entire immolation of its reason.”  (Saint Peter Julian Eymard, Eymard Library Vol. 6, pg. 321) 

Dearest Eucharistic Family,
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Our Blessed Mother appeared and shared with the three children of Fatima, Portugal, a vision on July 13, 1917. She revealed a powerful message that day, with a vision of hell before the eyes of Lucia, Jacinta, and Francisco. In the Secret of Fatima, we are reminded of the importance of intercessory prayer. Pope Benedict XVI interpreted the message of Fatima best with Saint Pope John Paul II and Cardinal Angelo Sodano. Thus, they were granted the right to examine and give the faithful concise announcement of what God was telling us through Mary in the apparitions of Fatima.
 
God rest his soul; Pope Benedict Emeritus said this regarding the July 13 apparition at Fatima:  

“What remains was already evident when we began our reflections on the text of the «secret»‌: the exhortation to prayer as the path of «salvation for souls»‌ and, likewise, the summons to penance and conversion.”    

Pope Benedict XVI continues: 

“The purpose of the vision is not to show a film of an irrevocably fixed future. Its meaning is exactly the opposite: it is meant to mobilize the forces of change in the right direction.”   

Fatima has been a significant part of my faith journey. Our Lady seems to have called me and all of you who know her, in this message, by name from our hearts to God’s altar. We are drawn to pray for Our Lady’s intentions. The evil of our time fuels our prayer to fight by our intercession to bring forth the presence of Christ. We are called to set fire to Christ’s mercy and reveal Heaven through the witness of our lives so God’s reign of LOVE is manifested. In the Eucharist, we live this Incarnation of God’s love.
 
In the above message from Saint Peter Julian, we find wisdom to be in obedience, “suffering is often God’s secret for keeping the soul under the mystery of obedience.” 
 
Obtaining a strong prayer life is essential; centering our lives around the Liturgy is our strength for the journey.
 
A beautiful thought is to be in a mystery of obedience. God has blessed us by giving us a mother; she is our teacher. Mary leads her children by example. 

“Then he said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother.” And from that hour, the disciple took her into his home.” (John 19:27)
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Friendship in Mary and in one another is a gift from Our Father. When we think of finding our relationship with our Mother, we can think of Our Blessed Mother teaching us to pray. Mary appeared to us so many times asking for our intercession, faithfulness, and love.  

“You have seen hell where the souls of poor sinners go. To save them, God wishes to establish in the world devotion to my Immaculate Heart.” (July 13th apparition at Fatima) 

We remember and believe our mother saved Saint Pope John Paul II; faith and prayer are more powerful than hatred. 

“In the vision, the Pope and the martyrs are also killed. When, after the attempted assassination on May 13, 1981, the Holy Father had the text of the third part of the «secret»‌ brought to him, was it not inevitable that he should see in it his own fate? He had been very close to death, and he himself explained his survival in the following words: «... it was a mother’s hand that guided the bullet’s path and in his throes the Pope halted at the threshold of death»‌”   (May 13 1994).

“That here «a mother’s hand»‌ had deflected the fateful bullet only shows once more that there is no immutable destiny, that faith and prayer are forces that can influence history, and that in the end, prayer is more powerful than bullets and faith more powerful than armies.”

A Vision of Hell and Prophecies

As she spoke these words, Mary opened her hands, and rays of light from them seemed to penetrate the earth, revealing to the children a terrifying vision of hell full of demons and lost souls amid indescribable horrors. The children looked up to the sad face of the Blessed Virgin, who spoke to them kindly:

“You have seen hell where the souls of poor sinners go. To save them, God wishes to establish in the world devotion to my Immaculate Heart. If what I say to you is done, many souls will be saved, and there will be peace.”
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(WAF/World Apostolate of Fatima July 13, 1917)  

Important from Pope Benedict XVI, in conclusion: 

I would like finally to mention another key expression of the «secret»‌ which has become justly famous: «My Immaculate Heart will triumph.» What does this mean? 

The Heart open to God, purified by contemplation of God, is stronger than guns and weapons of every kind. The fiat of Mary, the word of her heart, has changed the history of the world because it brought the Saviour into the world - because, thanks to her Yes, God could become man in our world and remains so for all time. The Evil One has power in this world, as we see and experience continually; he has power because our freedom continually lets itself be led away from God. But since God himself took a human heart and has thus steered human freedom towards what is good, the freedom to choose evil no longer has the last word. From that time forth, the word that prevails is this: «In the world you will have tribulation, but take heart; I have overcome the world»‌ (Jn 16:33). The message of Fatima invites us to trust in this promise.  

Joseph Card. Ratzinger
Prefect of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith  


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Laura Catherine Worhacz

​Laura Catherine Worhacz is a Lay Associate of the Blessed Sacrament and author of Consecration to Jesus Through Our Lady of The Blessed Sacrament. She is also the Director of Mothers of The Blessed Sacrament. She lives in Trinity, FL with her husband and their two daughters.

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